2018 was a busy, stressful, fun year. My first child turned one, I found out I was expecting our second, we moved into a beautiful new home, my husband started a new job, and today, we are celebrating 7 years of marriage!
Next year will also be fun, busy, and stressful! I will be turning 30, I’ll be having my second baby, and who knows what else is to come!
I don’t make resolutions but some goals I have for the next year are:
spend less time on my phone/computer
get outside more
try new recipes
organize my attic
Now, with a newborn coming halfway through the year and having a very adventurous toddler, I am not sure how many new recipes or books I’ll be able to read! But that’s why they are just goals I simply desire to achieve and I won’t beat myself up over missing the mark!
Do you have any goals or resolutions for 2019? Share them with me in the comments!
Today was ROUGH.
My 14 month old was pretty cranky and fussy pretty much the entire day. He didn’t nap until 3:30 in the afternoon, and even then, it was only for about an hour! He’s busy and active, and in to everything, so it’s hard to get chores done around the house while he’s awake because he wants to “help” i.e pull things out of the laundry basket after I’ve already folded them, close the door to the dishwasher while I’m still loading it, dump the dog’s food and water bowls over, you get the picture.
But, as I sit here writing this, I’m watching him on the baby monitor and thinking back on our day. He’s been in bed for almost 3 hours. *PRAISE HANDS* I’m grateful he wants to help mommy in his own little way. Was he really fussy all day? No, not literally, it just seemed that way. When he was happy, and we were playing in his playroom, I was teaching him shapes. He can say “circle” now! That causes me to reflect back on all he’s learned. He is so smart, and he learns so much every day. He never ceases to amaze me. He knows some sign language-he’s able to tell me when he wants more, and when he’s all done. He knows what sound a cat, dog, truck, and rooster make. He knows what “ball” and “car” are, can say the words, and can bring me those toys when I ask. He’s getting more teeth, and his current favorite past time is climbing on things he shouldn’t and standing on them. So, what does all of this mean? Well, while he is smart, and toddler-like, he’s still very much a baby. He can’t tell me why he’s fussy and upset, but he is LEARNING new words, new skills, constantly, and I’m sure that is stressing his little body and brain out. I say all that to say this-I need to give myself and him a break for acting the way we did today. And, if you’re in the same boat, keep these thoughts in mind and remember tomorrow is a fresh start!